For Aunt Bernice and Uncle Alec,
who started with one and a half paychecks
and gave the world Barney.
And for Martine, Trish, and Rebecca —
the women who loved him,
each in their own way, each in their own time.
“My eyes were my mentors.”
— Barney A. Ebsworth, 2017
“He started the dance at midnight and never stopped dancing.”
— Paul Terry Walhus, Barney’s cousin
The first edition of this biography was written in a fever — the kind of sustained creative urgency that comes from knowing a story too well and too long, and finally having the tools to tell it. It covered the broad arc of Barney’s life: the origins, the empire, the art, the politics, the legacy. But a life as rich as Barney Ebsworth’s cannot be told in broad strokes alone. The devil, as they say, is in the details. And with Barney, the details are where the story gets extraordinary.
This second edition goes deeper. The ships are no longer a single chapter but a fleet of them — each vessel, each route, each innovation given its due. The women in Barney’s life — Martine, Trish, the others, and finally Rebecca — are explored not as footnotes to a great man’s story but as characters in their own right, women whose own lives intersected with Barney’s at moments of transformation and upheaval. The art purchases are traced not as a catalog but as a narrative — the detective story of a collector building his vision painting by painting, decade by decade.
New material has been added throughout: the Concorde logistics, the Build-A-Bear boardroom, the architectural plans for the house at Hunts Point, the night at Christie’s minute by minute. Additional interview subjects and research contacts are listed in the appendix for future editions.
The story of Barney Ebsworth is, finally, the story of America itself — of what happens when ambition meets taste, when discipline meets opportunity, when a boy who grew up on one and a half paychecks decides, with the quiet certainty of a man who has trained his eyes at the Louvre, that he will own the most beautiful things in the world.
Paul Terry Walhus
Austin, Texas
April 2026
November 13, 2018. Christie’s, 20 Rockefeller Plaza, New York City. 7:04 PM Eastern Standard Time.
The salesroom was standing-room only, which is saying something, because Christie’s evening sales are not the kind of events where people stand. They sit — in reserved seats assigned according to a hierarchy as rigid and unspoken as the one that governs seating at a state dinner. The front rows belong to the major dealers and their clients. The middle rows to the collectors who bid in person rather than by phone. The back rows to the press, the students, the curious, and the people who simply want to say they were in the room when history happened.
Tonight, every seat was taken and every wall was lined with the standing.
They had come for Lot 8B.
Lot 8B was Edward Hopper’s Chop Suey, painted in 1929, owned by Barney Ebsworth for decades, and considered by many scholars to be the greatest American painting in private hands. The pre-sale estimate was $70 million. The room knew the estimate was conservative. The room knew this because the room was full of people whose profession was knowing exactly what paintings are worth, and every one of them knew that Chop Suey was worth more than any number anyone had yet said out loud.
The auctioneer — Jussi Pylkkänen, Christie’s global president, a Finn with the preternatural calm of a man who has sold billions of dollars of art — opened the bidding. The paddles rose. The phones buzzed. The numbers climbed in increments that would have purchased houses, then blocks of houses, then small neighborhoods.
Sixty million. Seventy million. Eighty million.
The room was quiet now in the particular way that rooms full of very rich people become quiet when the numbers exceed their comprehension. Even the dealers, who are paid to be unimpressed, were watching.
Eighty-five million. Ninety million.
The hammer fell at $80 million flat — which, with Christie’s buyer’s premium, brought the total to $91,875,000.
Ninety-one million, eight hundred and seventy-five thousand dollars. For a painting of two women in a Chinese restaurant.
The room exhaled. The applause was sustained. And somewhere — wherever the dead go when the living finally understand what they built — Barney Ebsworth, who had purchased that painting for a fraction of its final price, who had hung it on his wall and looked at it every day for years, who had loaned it to museums so strangers could see what he saw in it, who had trained his eyes at the Louvre on weekends when he was a twenty-two-year-old soldier with no money and no credentials and no reason to be standing in front of a Delacroix except that something in him demanded it — Barney Ebsworth had been proven right.
Quality, quality, quality.
But let us go back to the beginning. Let us go back to St. Louis, to one and a half paychecks, to a father who played cricket because he grew up at Buckingham Palace, to two sisters named Gapen who married two very different men. Because the story of how Lot 8B came to be worth ninety-one million dollars is really the story of how a boy from Missouri came to own the most beautiful American paintings in the world.
And that story starts with the sisters.
In the early decades of the twentieth century, in the broad, flat, church-going heart of the American Midwest, there lived two sisters named Gapen. Their names were Lillian and Bernice, and if you passed them on the street in whatever small Illinois or Missouri town they inhabited, you would not have given them a second glance. They were Midwestern women of their era — practical, God-fearing, raised to keep a clean house and marry a decent man and attend to the business of family with the same quiet competence they brought to everything else.
They married decent men. But the men they married were so different from each other that the two branches of the family they produced would diverge, over the course of a century, into completely separate American universes — one of them comfortable and ordinary, the other extraordinary beyond any reasonable prediction.
Lillian Gapen married into the Frauenthal family. The Frauenthals were American originals — a family whose story reads like a condensed history of the nation itself. Max Frauenthal, the patriarch, had fought for the Confederacy at the Battle of Spotsylvania Court House, where a Union general described him as having “the heart of a lion.” After the war, Max moved to Arkansas, opened a store, and literally moved the commercial center of an entire town by placing his shop where the wagons parked instead of on the town square. He helped found Cleburne County. He built Heber Springs. He was the father of a town.
Max’s descendants continued the pattern of improbable achievement. Barney W. Frauenthal became the Manager of the Bureau of Information at St. Louis Union Station, essentially inventing the modern concept of traveler information services. He published two guides to St. Louis for the 1904 World’s Fair. Dr. Henry William Frauenthal became a prominent New York surgeon, founded the Hospital for Joint Diseases, and survived the sinking of the Titanic in Lifeboat No. 5.
Through Lillian’s marriage, this extraordinary family produced Virginia Frauenthal, who married a Walhus, who produced Paul Terry Walhus — the author’s family. Lillian’s line carried the Frauenthal name into the future.
Bernice Gapen — everyone called her Bern — made a very different choice. She married Alec Ebsworth, a British man whose grandfather had been commander of the Grenadier Guards at Buckingham Palace. Alec was an Englishman in Missouri — a man of the old world transplanted into the new, carrying with him the particular British conviction that deportment matters, that discipline is a virtue, and that one should always, under all circumstances, maintain one’s standards.
From this marriage — from this unlikely union of a Midwestern Gapen girl and a displaced English gentleman — came twins: a boy named Bernard Alec Ebsworth, whom everyone would call Barney, and a girl named Muriel.
Barney would build cruise lines and collect masterpieces and live next door to the richest man on earth. Muriel would become a teacher in North Carolina.
Same womb. Same birthday. Same parents. Same one and a half paychecks.
The Gapen sisters could not have imagined, on the days they said “I do” to their respective husbands, what their choices would produce. Lillian could not have known that her line would carry the Frauenthal legacy — Civil War hero, Titanic survivor, railroad pioneer — into the twenty-first century. Bernice could not have known that her son would stand in a house worth thirty-seven million dollars, surrounded by paintings worth three hundred million more, looking out at Lake Washington while Bill Gates looked back from across the water.
But that is what happened. And it all started with two sisters who married two decent men in the American Midwest.
Let us stay with this moment, because everything that follows depends on it. New Year’s Eve, 1956. A USO hall in France — probably Paris, though the exact location has been lost to the comfortable haze of family legend. The room is full of American soldiers and French civilians, the two populations that have been mixing, with various degrees of success and scandal, since D-Day twelve years earlier.
Barney Ebsworth is twenty-two years old. He is tall, lean, handsome in the angular way of men who run the quarter-mile and don’t eat enough. He has spent his weekends at the Louvre, standing before Delacroix and Monet and Cézanne, teaching himself to see. He is, at this moment, the most cultured soldier in the United States Army, which is like being the tallest building in Topeka — true, but not a distinction that anyone else has noticed.
Across the room, Martine de Visme is nineteen. She is French, which means she possesses the particular self-assurance that French women have been deploying against hapless foreign men since the court of Louis XIV. She is pretty. She is young. She is at a party where the champagne is flowing and the music is playing and the Americans are dancing with an exuberance that the French find both charming and slightly exhausting.
The clock strikes midnight.
Barney asks Martine to dance.
What happens next is the oldest story in the world: two young people, a foreign country, a dance, and the terrifying conviction that this — this person, this moment, this feeling — is the beginning of something that cannot be stopped.
They married in March 1958 in France. The ceremony was simple — Barney had no money to make it otherwise. He brought his bride home to St. Louis, to the one and a half paychecks, to the modest world of the Ebsworths that was about to become considerably less modest.
Martine gave Barney two things that would define the rest of his life. The first was Christiane — their daughter, his only child, the girl who would grow up to inherit the collection and make the decision that shattered the art world. The second was France itself — the language, the culture, the sensibility, the conviction that beauty is not a luxury but a necessity. Barney had been visiting beauty as a tourist, standing in the Louvre like a foreigner. Through Martine, beauty became domestic. It moved into his house. It spoke French at the dinner table. It changed his expectations of what daily life could look like, sound like, feel like.
The marriage ended. The reasons, like all reasons for the end of marriages, are private and complicated and not entirely knowable from the outside. What we know is this: Barney and Martine divorced, and Barney kept Christiane close, and Martine faded from the public record — a French girl who danced with an American soldier at midnight and produced, from that dance, a daughter who would one day sell ninety-one million dollars’ worth of Hopper.
Martine de Visme. If she is still alive, she would be in her late eighties. She would have watched, from whatever distance, as the man she danced with at midnight built cruise lines and collected masterpieces and became one of the richest men in America. She would have seen her daughter’s name in the newspapers when the Christie’s auction set records. She would know, with the particular bittersweet knowledge of first wives everywhere, that she was there at the beginning — that without the dance, without the marriage, without Christiane, the story would have been completely different.
Every empire starts with a dance. This one started at midnight.
If the first marriage was midnight champagne and youth and France, the second marriage was Georgia O’Keeffe and the New Mexico desert and the kind of artistic credential that money literally cannot buy.
Patricia Ann Kloepfer — Trish to everyone who knew her — entered Barney’s life in the early 1980s, when he was at the height of his powers. INTRAV was thriving. Royal Cruise Line was sailing. The art collection was growing. Barney was no longer a young soldier dancing at midnight; he was a man in his late forties, wealthy, confident, connected, and possessed of an eye for beauty that extended well beyond the canvas.
They married around 1981. The wedding was held at the home of Georgia O’Keeffe in Abiquiu, New Mexico.
Let that settle for a moment.
Georgia O’Keeffe was, by 1981, ninety-three years old. She was nearly blind. She had not painted in years. But she was still Georgia O’Keeffe — still the woman who had redefined American art, who had taken the desert and the sky and the bones and the flowers and turned them into a visual language so powerful that it changed how an entire nation saw its own landscape. She was an American icon, and she was standing in her own home, watching Barney Ebsworth get married, and signing her name as the witness.
The friendship between Barney and O’Keeffe was real. It was not a collector exploiting an elderly artist for social cachet. Barney served on the board of the Georgia O’Keeffe Museum. He collected her work with genuine passion. And O’Keeffe, whose tolerance for fools was approximately zero, would not have opened her home for a wedding unless she genuinely cared for the groom.
What was Trish Kloepfer like? The historical record is thinner here than the biographer would wish. She does not appear in the Smithsonian oral history. She does not appear in the auction coverage. She exists, in the public record, primarily as the woman who married Barney Ebsworth with Georgia O’Keeffe as the witness — which is a magnificent single sentence but an inadequate biography.
What we know: the marriage, like the first, did not last. Barney would marry at least twice more. But the Trish marriage gave Barney something no amount of money could have purchased: the O’Keeffe connection. The witness signature. The blessing of one of the greatest American artists on his personal life. When Lake George with Crows sold at Christie’s for $11.3 million, it was not just a painting being sold. It was a painting by the woman who had stood at his wedding.
Art and life, inseparable. Always.
Between Trish and Rebecca, there was at least one more marriage. The details are sparse — deliberately so, one suspects, as Barney was not a man who dwelled on things that had ended. He looked forward. He collected the next painting, founded the next company, pursued the next beautiful thing. The marriages that didn’t work were, in his accounting, costs of doing business — the emotional equivalent of the unsold inventory that every entrepreneur carries on the books.
But each marriage tells us something about where Barney was in his life at the time. The first marriage was youth and France and the Louvre. The second was artistic maturity and O’Keeffe and New Mexico. The third — whoever she was, wherever she went — belongs to the period of Barney’s life when the collection was approaching its zenith, when the ships were sailing, when the political connections were deepening, when Barney was becoming, fully and irreversibly, the man he would be remembered as.
Four marriages in eighty-three years. The pattern is consistent: Barney saw something beautiful, pursued it with everything he had, and held nothing back. When the beauty faded — or when whatever it was that he needed from the relationship was exhausted — he moved on. It is the behavior of a collector, not a husband. A collector acquires what speaks to him, lives with it for as long as it speaks, and then — sometimes — lets it go to make room for the next thing that demands his attention.
Whether this is a character flaw or a character strength depends entirely on where you stand. From the perspective of the women, it may have been devastating. From the perspective of the collection — the great work of his life, the thing that outlasted every marriage — it was simply how Barney was built. He was not made for permanence in love. He was made for permanence in art.
Rebecca Layman-Amato was the woman who was there at the end.
When Barney Ebsworth died on April 9, 2018, at his home on Hunts Point Road, on the shores of Lake Washington, two people were at his bedside: his daughter Christiane and his wife Rebecca. The two most important women in his life — the child of the first marriage and the partner of the last — flanking him as he left the world.
Rebecca was Barney’s fourth wife, and by the accounts available, she was the one who provided what the others had not — or could not — which was a steady, enduring presence in his final years. By the time Barney married Rebecca, he was no longer the young soldier at the USO dance or the art-world high-flyer marrying in O’Keeffe’s living room. He was an older man, wealthy beyond anything his parents could have imagined, living in a house worth tens of millions of dollars, surrounded by paintings worth hundreds of millions more, and facing the questions that all people face when the horizon shortens: What was it for? Who will remember? What lasts?
What lasts, it turned out, was the art. The ships are gone — sold, scrapped, or sailing under different names. The marriages are ended. The companies have been absorbed into larger entities. INTRAV belongs to Kuoni. The Clipper ships are someone else’s fleet. Build-A-Bear carries on without knowing, or needing to know, that Barney Ebsworth was there at the beginning.
But the paintings endure. They hang in museums and private collections around the world. Chop Suey is out there somewhere, in someone’s home or on a museum wall, doing what it has done since 1929: showing two women in a Chinese restaurant, bathed in winter light, being quietly, beautifully, irreducibly American.
Rebecca was there when the paintings were still on Barney’s walls. She was there when the light came through the Olson-designed windows and fell on Hoppers and de Koonings and O’Keeffes. She saw what Barney saw every morning for the last years of his life: the lake, the art, the light. She was the last person to share that view with him.
Then the paintings went to Christie’s, and the house went to Bezos, and Rebecca Layman-Amato faded from the public record the way all of Barney’s wives eventually did — absorbed back into the privacy that Barney’s wealth could provide and his fame could not.
She was the last dance. And the music, finally, had stopped.
She was not the largest ship on the ocean. She was not the fastest. She was not the most technologically advanced. The MS Golden Odyssey, flagship of Barney Ebsworth’s Royal Cruise Line, was something rarer than any of those things: she was the most civilized.
Launched in the early 1970s, the Golden Odyssey carried approximately five hundred passengers through the Mediterranean, the Caribbean, and on world voyages that lasted weeks. In an era when the cruise industry was beginning its long march toward gigantism — toward ships that carried three thousand, four thousand, eventually six thousand passengers in floating amusement parks — the Golden Odyssey was an anachronism. She was small enough that you could learn the bartender’s name by the second night. She was elegant enough that dressing for dinner was not a suggestion but an expectation. She was Barney Ebsworth in nautical form: quietly excellent, deliberately intimate, resistant to the vulgar pull of more.
The ship’s public spaces were designed for conversation, not spectacle. The dining room seated all passengers in a single sitting — no second seating, no buffet, no grab-and-go. You sat down, you were served, you ate a proper meal with proper service, and you spoke to the people at your table because the alternative was sitting in silence, and on a Golden Odyssey voyage, the people at your table were invariably interesting enough to make silence unnecessary.
The passenger list read like a Who’s Who of American affluence — not the flashy, new-money affluence of Wall Street traders and tech founders, but the older, quieter kind: retired executives, university presidents, art collectors, physicians, and the particular breed of well-traveled Americans who had seen enough of the world to know that the best way to see more of it was on a ship that didn’t try too hard to entertain them.
The entertainment, after all, was the ocean. The ports of call. The conversations at dinner. The sunset from the upper deck. Barney understood that the richest people in the world don’t need to be entertained. They need to be left alone with beauty — and given enough comfort to appreciate it without distraction.
The Golden Odyssey provided exactly that. She was a beautiful ship doing a beautiful thing in a beautiful part of the world, and she asked nothing of her passengers except that they show up for dinner properly dressed and with something interesting to say.
It was, when you think about it, the same thing Barney asked of a painting.
The MS Royal Odyssey was the bigger sister — approximately eight hundred passengers, still intimate by modern standards but large enough to carry the Royal Cruise Line brand into the broader luxury market. If the Golden Odyssey was a chamber quartet, the Royal Odyssey was a small orchestra: more players, more range, but still fundamentally committed to the same score.
The Royal Odyssey sailed routes that the Golden Odyssey couldn’t — longer world cruises, extended Mediterranean itineraries, voyages to the South Pacific and Southeast Asia and the coasts of Africa. She was the ship that took Barney’s vision global, that proved the INTRAV model could work on water as well as it worked on land.
And she sailed — this is the part that the family can never quite get past — through the same Atlantic waters that had swallowed the Titanic sixty years earlier. The same ocean. The same routes. The same shipping lanes where Dr. Henry Frauenthal had jumped into a lifeboat and landed on Annie May Stengel, breaking her ribs, as fifteen hundred people prepared to die in the freezing dark.
Barney never talked publicly about the Titanic connection. It was not the kind of thing he would have discussed with journalists or auction houses. But the family knew. The family always knew that every ship Barney launched, every cruise he organized, every voyage he planned was haunted — gently, distantly, but unmistakably — by the ghost of a ship that had promised to be unsinkable and wasn’t.
The Royal Odyssey sailed for years. She carried thousands of passengers safely across every ocean. She never struck an iceberg. She never sank. She was, in the end, everything the Titanic was supposed to be: a beautiful ship that did what it promised and brought everyone home alive.
Maybe that was the point.
The Yorktown Clipper drew seven and a half feet of water. Seven and a half feet. A number worth pausing over, because it explains everything about what Barney Ebsworth was trying to do with Clipper Cruise Line, and why the big cruise companies couldn’t do it even if they wanted to.
Seven and a half feet of draft means the Yorktown Clipper could navigate waterways that were barely deeper than a swimming pool. She could sail up the Intracoastal Waterway of the American Southeast, threading between the barrier islands and the mainland in water so shallow that you could see the sandy bottom. She could navigate the Erie Canal, that engineering marvel of the early American republic, gliding through locks designed for barges, not passenger ships. She could enter harbors in the Pacific Islands that the big cruise ships passed by because their thirty-foot drafts would have grounded them on the coral.
The Nantucket Clipper was her sister ship — slightly different in configuration but identical in philosophy. Both ships carried between one hundred and one hundred forty passengers. Both were staffed with naturalists, historians, and lecturers who knew more about the coastline outside the window than most university professors. Both eschewed the standard cruise-ship amenities — the casinos, the Broadway-style shows, the midnight buffets, the shopping arcades — in favor of the amenities that Barney Ebsworth’s particular clientele actually wanted: knowledge, access, and silence.
The silence was important. On a Clipper ship, you could stand on the bow at dawn and hear nothing but the water against the hull and the cry of seabirds. There was no bass thump from a nightclub three decks below. There was no P.A. system announcing trivia contests or poolside karaoke. There was only the world — the river, the canal, the coast, the islands — presented without commentary or distraction, the way Barney believed beautiful things should always be presented.
It was INTRAV on water. It was the Louvre weekends made nautical. And it was, in its quiet way, the most Ebsworthian of all his ventures — because the Clipper ships embodied his deepest conviction: that less is more, that small is better, that the finest things in life are found not by searching for the biggest and the loudest but by looking, carefully and patiently, in the places where no one else thinks to look.
Seven and a half feet of draft. That was all it took to go where no one else could go.
The phrase that Barney used his entire life — “one and a half paychecks” — conceals a detail that changes the picture entirely. The half paycheck was not a second job. It was not overtime or a side hustle. It was a person.
Bernice Ebsworth — Barney’s mother, whom he always called by her full name, Berenice, not the shortened Bernice that family members sometimes used — had an older sister. A spinster. She never married, never had children of her own, and she worked at the post office. And about half the time, she lived with the Ebsworth family.
That was the half paycheck. A maiden aunt with a government job, sleeping in a spare room, contributing her postal worker’s salary to a household that needed every dollar it could get. Alec’s white-collar manufacturing jobs — he was never union, unlike the neighbors who drove beer trucks and owned their own homes because the union protected them — provided the one paycheck. The aunt provided the half.
“Mom was, like in the good old days, a stay-at-home mother,” Barney told the Smithsonian interviewer in 2017, at his home in Hunts Point, surrounded by hundreds of millions of dollars in art. “She had a spinster older sister who worked for the post office, and maybe half the time lived with us, which was like one and a half paychecks. And Dad did various sort of white-collar jobs in the manufacturing — different manufacturing companies. So of course, he wasn’t union. My friends’ — most of my friends’ fathers were union, like beer truck drivers or thing, and they all had their own homes, because they were protected by the union, whereas Dad wasn’t protected by anybody.”
He laughed when he said it. But listen to what he’s telling you. The Ebsworth family — headed by a man whose grandfather had commanded the Grenadier Guards at Buckingham Palace — was poorer than the beer truck drivers next door. They didn’t own their home. They didn’t own a car. They rode the bus. And the difference between getting by and not getting by was a spinster aunt and her post office check.
Barney’s father, the proud Englishman, bristled at the word “poor.” “I think I said one time I grew up poor,” Barney recalled, “and he was very offended, because I was never hungry. I always had clothes. I always had a roof over my head. We just didn’t have anything else. We didn’t have a car, or we didn’t own a house, and rode the bus. And all of that is very good stuff to grow up with. It’s just — it gives you great motivation to move past it.”
Great motivation to move past it. There, in seven words, is the engine that drove everything: the travel companies, the cruise lines, the art collection, the homes in Ladue and Hunts Point and Hawaii. Every painting Barney bought, every ship he launched, every deal he closed was, at some level, a boy from one and a half paychecks moving past it. Not running from it — Barney never ran from anything — but moving past it with the quiet, English-inflected determination that Alec had taught him by example.
“But it was a wonderful beginning,” Barney said. “I mean, you know, I had a great sister, great parents, great aunt.”
Four people. One and a half paychecks. A house they didn’t own. And the boy who would grow up to own Edward Hopper’s greatest painting.
Muriel Ebsworth lettered in eight sports in her freshman year of college. Eight. In a single year. If Barney was fast, Muriel was a force of nature.
The twins were born together on July 14, 1934, and from the very start, they were a matched pair of competitive fire. Barney ran the quarter-mile at Cleveland High School. Muriel — well, Muriel did everything. Whatever sport was in season, Muriel played it, and played it well enough to earn a varsity letter. Eight times in one year.
At their 50-year high school reunion, Barney walked up to the class bully — the boy who had beaten up every other boy in the class — and asked the question that had been nagging him for half a century. “You know, you beat up all the boys in the class except me. Why not me?”
The bully looked at him and said, “I was scared to death of your sister.”
Barney told this story to the Smithsonian interviewer with the particular delight of a man who had waited fifty years to hear the answer and found it funnier than he’d imagined. “She didn’t take grief from anybody,” he said. The class bully had calculated, correctly, that beating up Barney Ebsworth meant answering to Muriel Ebsworth, and Muriel Ebsworth was a problem no bully wanted to solve.
The twins couldn’t have been more different in their public profiles. Barney built cruise lines. Muriel became a teacher. Barney collected Hoppers and de Koonings. Muriel graded homework. Barney moved to Hunts Point and lived next door to Bill Gates. Muriel moved to North Carolina and married Dave Mueller and raised four children, including Roger.
But they shared the same thing: a ferocity that wouldn’t quit. Barney expressed it in business and art. Muriel expressed it on the playing field and in the classroom. The same fire, different fuel. And the class bully, the one who had terrorized every other boy in the school, looked at those twins and decided he’d rather leave one of them alone than face the other.
Muriel predeceased her brother. When she died, Barney lost not just a sister but the other half of a matched set — the only person on earth who had entered the world at the same moment he did, who had shared the same one and a half paychecks, who had played cricket in the same backyard and ridden the same bus to the same school and known, from the inside, exactly what it was like to be an Ebsworth in St. Louis.
Eight sports. Freshman year. And the bully was scared of her.
Here is a fact that Barney Ebsworth shared with perhaps twenty million other Americans and absolutely no one else on earth: he didn’t have a college degree. Or rather, he did have one, but he hadn’t earned it.
“There’s probably 20 million Americans lying about having a college degree that don’t have one,” Barney told the Smithsonian interviewer. “And there’s one that I know of, me, that the college says I have a degree, but I didn’t graduate.”
The story is extraordinary. Barney had gone to the University of Missouri on an athletic scholarship — he was a sprinter on the track team. After two years, making straight A’s, he transferred to Washington University in St. Louis on an academic scholarship, where he entered a combined business and law program. He continued making straight A’s. But with nine hours remaining before graduation, he petitioned out to join the Army.
“There was a draft and I was draft age,” he explained. “I decided that now was the time to go in the Army, and then come back and finish the rest of my education. Because it seemed like a good break for me, and besides, I think I was ready to leave school. The pressure of making straight A’s gets to you after a while.”
He never went back. The Army sent him to France. France gave him the Louvre. The Louvre gave him an eye. And the eye gave him a four-hundred-million-dollar collection. The nine hours remained un-earned.
Nine hours short. It is the kind of detail that, in a biography of a conventionally successful man, would be a footnote. But in Barney’s story, it is a key. He was self-taught. Not just in art — where he famously trained his eye at the Louvre without a single class — but in everything. He taught himself business by building businesses. He taught himself art by looking at art. He taught himself travel by traveling. And he taught himself to collect by collecting — not the most, but the best. Always the best.
He later taught art history classes at the university level. He had never taken one.
On the troop ship crossing the Atlantic to France, a young soldier named Barney Ebsworth read a book by Somerset Maugham. He could never remember the exact title. But the book was about an Englishwoman who took her family to Paris every Easter and who had, through years of patient visits, “pretty well memorized the Louvre.”
That was the spark.
Not a professor. Not a class. Not a curriculum or a degree or a mentor. A novel, read on a troop ship, about a woman who knew a museum by heart. Barney read it crossing the ocean, and when he got to France, he decided to do the same thing.
“And that was it, you know,” he told the Smithsonian. “And then it was there. Then it was waiting to earn some money that I could start collecting.”
He went to the Louvre every weekend for a year. After that year, he could walk down the main hallway and lecture on every painting from memory without looking at them. “And then that went on for about 10 years,” he said, “and then the 11th year, I went over and they had rehung it.” He laughed. “And I never really got that good again.”
A Somerset Maugham novel, read on a troop ship, produced a collector whose art sold for $323 million. The chain of causation is absurd and beautiful: Maugham wrote a book. Barney read it on a boat. The book mentioned a woman who memorized a museum. Barney memorized the same museum. The museum trained his eye. The eye chose American Modernism. American Modernism produced Chop Suey. Chop Suey sold for ninety-one million dollars.
All because a soldier picked up a paperback on a troop ship.
“When you enlist in the Army, you’re dog meat,” Barney said, laughing. “You go wherever they want you to go.”
His entire Wash U class was sent to Korea. Barney was sent to France. He sent them Christmas cards from Paris every year. They got angry with him.
The posting was pure serendipity — the Army needed a clerk typist in eastern France, and Barney was technically a clerk typist, even though the Army had run an entire typing class of 40 students just for him, because the other 39 already knew how to type. He never got good enough to actually type, but he was classified as a clerk typist, and there was a slot in eastern France, and the Army, in its infinite bureaucratic wisdom, matched the slot to the man.
“I’m in the Ozarks of France,” Barney recalled, “loving every minute of it. Mud up to our nose, rainy, wonderful.”
He quickly figured out the system. He had three French girls doing his clerical work — he divided one job into thirds, and they thought he was a great boss. For extra money, he ran the NCO Club. The sergeant major of the company became his head bartender, and they had an unspoken arrangement: Barney signed the sergeant major’s paycheck, and the sergeant major signed Barney’s weekend passes.
“We had a wonderful relationship,” Barney said.
So Barney went to Paris every weekend. He bought a brand-new Volkswagen with his NCO Club earnings — earlier than planned, because of Martine — and drove to the capital every Friday. First he “turned Paris inside out” seeing everything a young man sees in Paris. Then he started going to the Louvre. And then it was the Louvre every weekend for a year.
The controller of the unit didn’t care what Barney did, as long as his section got top grades on headquarters inspections. “And we had a unique way of doing that,” Barney said, “and fortunately, we never got caught.”
He never elaborated on what that unique way was. Some mysteries are best left to the Army.
It was during one of those weekend drives that Barney took his first real art trip — a 10-day tour of Italy for $99. Less than $10 a day. Hotels, meals, sightseeing, bus transportation. The company that organized it went bankrupt within two years. But Barney saw the Uffizi, the dell’Accademia, the Peggy Guggenheim in Venice, the Pitti Palace in Florence. He stood in the Pitti and saw Raphaels stacked four high on the walls — “a banquet of perfect pictures.”
And when he came back from Italy, he had missed Martine so much that they got engaged.
The Army sent him to France because it needed a clerk typist. It got an art collector, a travel entrepreneur, and a man who would spend the next sixty years sending other people to the places he had discovered on $99 tours and weekend passes. The Army has produced generals and presidents. It also produced Barney Ebsworth. It did not intend to produce any of them.
The third marriage was to Pamela Larimer, and it was Pam who was there for the biggest physical transformation of Barney’s life: the move from St. Louis to Seattle.
By the 1990s, Barney had been in St. Louis for decades. The INTRAV empire was built there. The art collection filled the walls at 3 Sumac Lane in Ladue. The social world — the Busches, the Danforths, Bucky Bush, the country clubs and charity galas — was deeply rooted. But something in Barney was restless, the same “what’s-over-the-next-hill feeling” that had driven him to the Louvre, to INTRAV, to the cruise lines, to every painting he’d ever bought.
Barney and Pam had a condo in Seattle for perhaps ten years before they moved permanently — a part-time arrangement, bicoastal in the way that wealthy Americans manage when one city isn’t enough. Seattle was the new frontier. The tech boom was reshaping the Pacific Northwest, and the shores of Lake Washington were filling with the kind of concentrated wealth that had once been the exclusive province of the East Coast.
But it was not the move that defined the Pam marriage. It was the end.
In 1991, Pam turned to Barney and said something that would change the course of his inner life more profoundly than any painting he’d ever bought or any ship he’d ever launched.
“My wife at the time one day turned to me and said, ‘I don’t know if I’m in love, and I have to leave to find out.’ And she left. No fight, no warning, no nothing.”
— Barney Ebsworth, Smithsonian oral history, 2017
No fight. No warning. No nothing. Just a woman telling a man she wasn’t sure she loved him, and walking out the door.
Barney was devastated. He had survived the quarter-mile. He had survived the Army. He had survived the bankruptcy of competitors and the ups and downs of the travel industry and the relentless pressure of building companies from nothing. But this — a woman leaving not in anger but in uncertainty, not slamming the door but simply opening it and walking through it — this broke something in him that business had never touched.
“I was in a pretty sad state,” he told the Smithsonian. The man who had trained himself to see beauty at the Louvre, who had built cruise lines and chartered Concordes, who had stood in Georgia O’Keeffe’s living room and argued about art history — that man was, in 1991, heartbroken and alone.
He tried the Presbyterian Church. “There was no God going on,” he said, laughing at the memory but not at the pain. He had been raised Christian Science, had attended every Sunday until college, then drifted away during the Army and never really gone back. Now, in his late fifties, with a marriage in ruins and a faith he couldn’t locate, he needed something.
That something arrived in the form of Bucky Bush.
“George Bush’s youngest brother, Bucky Bush, was a great friend of mine, and he took me to the Episcopal Church,” Barney recalled. “And then I became an Episcopalian. And I think I got a very strong feeling of my grandfather, who was a British officer. And that was a great comfort to me, and still is. I’m still an Episcopalian. I always will be. And I don’t go at Christmas and Easter. I go every — all the rest of the Sundays.”
Pam Larimer left Barney Ebsworth, and Barney Ebsworth found God. Not the God of his Christian Science childhood, and not the God of the Presbyterian church that had failed him, but the God of the Episcopal Church — the church of his grandfather the Grenadier Guard, the church of English fair play and ancient liturgy, the church that Bucky Bush showed him when everything else had fallen away.
It is one of the most human moments in this story. A man worth hundreds of millions of dollars, a man who owned Hoppers and de Koonings, a man who had danced with Martine at midnight and married Trish in O’Keeffe’s living room — that man was brought to his knees not by a business failure or a market crash but by six words from his wife: I don’t know if I’m in love.
Pamela Larimer. The woman who left. The woman who, by leaving, gave Barney the two things that sustained him for the rest of his life: the Episcopal Church and the knowledge that even a man who owns the most beautiful paintings in the world can be undone by the simplest, most ordinary kind of human loss.
She invited him three times before he came. Three times, the greatest American woman artist of the twentieth century sent word through her agent, Doris Bry, that she would like to meet the man from St. Louis who had bought her painting Black, White, and Blue at the Edith Halpert auction on March 14, 1973, for $47,000. And three times, Barney Ebsworth said no.
“And the third time,” Barney recalled, “I said, you know, ‘Barney’” — talking to himself — “‘someday you’re going to open the New York Times obits and find out that’” — even then, she was in her eighties. So he called Doris Bry back and accepted.
“I’d met presidents, and dictators, and a lot of pretty important people and never been intimidated. But I was sort of intimidated about going to meet Georgia O’Keeffe.”
She came to the door dressed in black, as she always was. Barney noticed a pin on her dress — stylized letters that he recognized immediately.
“Oh, I see you have your favorite pin on. And it’s your initials. O.K.”
Doris Bry, who had been O’Keeffe’s agent for decades and had seen the pin thousands of times, said, “Oh, I never knew those were your initials.” O’Keeffe explained that the original had been made by Alexander Calder, and she had it copied by a jeweler in India during a trip around the world.
That was the beginning.
Over the following years, Barney visited O’Keeffe at Abiquiu half a dozen times. He stayed overnight — two or three days at a stretch, sleeping in her home, eating at her table, talking about Stieglitz and 291 and Dove and Hartley. She was ninety percent blind by then, but she was still Georgia O’Keeffe — still the force that commanded any room she entered, still the woman who did what she wanted when she wanted to do it.
On one visit, Barney asked if he could take photographs of her.
“She said, ‘Well, I would just as soon you didn’t, but if you want to, go ahead.’ And I said, ‘Well, if you’d just as soon I didn’t, I won’t.’ And I didn’t.”
It was the gentlemanly choice. And it may have been the choice that preserved their friendship. O’Keeffe, who had been photographed by Stieglitz in some of the most famous images in the history of photography, was not a woman who said things she didn’t mean. When she said she’d rather he didn’t, she meant it. Barney read her. He read people the way he read paintings — carefully, looking for the truth beneath the surface.
The most famous Barney-and-Georgia story involves Juan Hamilton — the young potter who had entered O’Keeffe’s life as her eyesight failed, gradually displacing Doris Bry as her closest confidant. One evening, after dinner at Abiquiu, Juan launched into an impassioned speech about O’Keeffe’s late work: “She did great things in the ’20s and better in the ’30s and better in the ’40s and better in the ’50s, and she was doing her best work now.”
Barney looked at him and said: “Juan, that is pure, unmitigated bullshit.”
With Georgia sitting right there.
Juan exploded. He turned to O’Keeffe and said, “Tell Barney he doesn’t know what he’s talking about.”
Georgia looked up and said: “Barney knows what he’s talking about.”
And that was the end of the conversation.
When the relationship between Doris Bry and O’Keeffe finally ruptured — with Juan Hamilton maneuvering Doris out — it became a lawsuit. Breach of agency contract. Doris claimed she had a lifetime contract to sell O’Keeffe’s pictures at a 25 percent commission. The legal issue was breach of contract. The real issue, as Barney understood immediately, was “alienation of affection and divorce.”
Barney had begged both women not to sue each other. “When you hire a lawyer, and particularly a New York lawyer — he’s your hired assassin. He’s your gunman, and it’s easy to put him on and very hard to take him off.”
They didn’t listen. The lawsuit proceeded. And then Georgia and Juan called Barney and asked him to mediate. “We can’t stop our lawyers from running up bills and suing each other. You’re the only person that we trust that we think Doris would trust.”
Barney had never mediated anything. He wasn’t a lawyer. But when O’Keeffe asked, Barney said yes. It was not a good summer. He was taking Gelusil for his stomach. But he got it done — pulled both sides together until they shook hands, and then said, “I’m out of here. I just did it.”
Doris Bry, in gratitude, offered Barney ten Stieglitz photographs. He refused to accept them personally but agreed to let her donate them to the St. Louis Art Museum in his honor. They are there to this day.
One visit, Barney mentioned that he admired a small Arthur Dove painting called Sunlight that O’Keeffe owned. She said, “Well, why don’t you keep it in your bedroom while you’re here? It’s sitting in the drawer over there.”
Barney opened the first drawer of a four-drawer dresser. Paintbrushes. Second drawer. Paintbrushes. Third drawer. Paintbrushes. Fourth drawer. Paintbrushes — and on top of them, a wonderful Arthur Dove.
After O’Keeffe died, Juan Hamilton inherited both the paintings Barney had wanted most: the Dove and the O’Keeffe Nature Forms, Gaspé. Barney never got either one.
“I’ve always said she didn’t do a 100 percent cutting-edge picture after 1932 when she had her nervous breakdown,” Barney told the interviewer. He had even said it in front of Georgia. Juan was exasperated. Georgia sided with Barney. That was just how it was between them: Barney told the truth about her art, and Georgia respected him for it.
She was the artist. He was the eye. And in the end, the eye knew things about the artist that even the artist’s own lover couldn’t see.
This is the full story of Barney Ebsworth’s wedding to Patricia “Trish” Kloepfer, as told by Barney himself to the Smithsonian, and it is one of the great stories in the history of American art.
The problem was the guest list. Barney had said “small wedding” — just family. Ten people. Then it was twenty. Then fifty. Then a hundred. Then two hundred. Then three hundred. The wedding was metastasizing, as all weddings do, from an intimate ceremony into a production.
“I said, ‘We’ve got to run away someplace. Where could we go where we can say nobody’s invited?’”
He called Georgia O’Keeffe.
O’Keeffe knew Trish. She liked Barney. She said, “Barney, if that’s what you’d like, fine.” They would be married in her home in Abiquiu, New Mexico — the adobe compound where O’Keeffe had lived and worked for decades, the house with the famous door she had painted over and over.
They went to the chief judge of Tierra Amarilla, the county seat — a town that, as Barney noted with amusement, was “totally Mexican. Everybody speaking Spanish.” The judge agreed to perform the ceremony at O’Keeffe’s home. Barney suspected the real reason was that “nobody was ever — certainly, none of the locals were ever allowed in her house. I think he wanted to see the house.”
On the wedding day, Georgia was wearing her signature black knit dress. The judge arrived and began putting on his black polyester robe. O’Keeffe walked up to him and said:
“Well, I thought I was the only one wearing a black dress today.”
Then the judge said: “Well, who are the witnesses?”
O’Keeffe said: “I’m a witness, and my secretary, Pita Lopez, is the other witness.”
(Pita Lopez is now the president of the Georgia O’Keeffe Foundation. The Lopez family ran Abiquiu — the mother was the cook, the brother Maggie was the gardener, the father had another role, and Pita was the secretary.)
The judge shook his head. “No, I need a male witness and a female witness.”
O’Keeffe drew herself up: “I told you who are the witnesses.”
The queen had spoken. But the law was the law, and Barney realized that the impasse might mean he wasn’t going to get married. “I realized I’m not about ready to get not married,” he said.
He looked out the window. There, in the garden, was Maggie Lopez — Pita’s brother, the gardener — standing up to his ankles in horse manure.
“Pita, would you ask Maggie to step in here for a minute?”
Maggie came in, dirt and manure on his boots, blinking in the interior light of O’Keeffe’s living room.
“Maggie, what are you doing for the next half hour?”
“Whatever you’d like, Mr. Ebsworth.”
“You stay here. You’re my best man.”
And so Barney Ebsworth married Patricia Kloepfer in the home of Georgia O’Keeffe, with O’Keeffe and Pita Lopez as witnesses, Maggie Lopez — fresh from the horse manure — as best man, and a judge from Tierra Amarilla who had really only come to see the inside of the house.
Five people. The minimum number required by law. It was, as Barney noted with delight, “in some ways, a duplicate” of O’Keeffe’s own wedding to Stieglitz in 1924, which also had only five people: Stieglitz and O’Keeffe, Arthur Dove, Georgia Engelhard (Stieglitz’s niece), and John Marin, who drove over to be the best man.
O’Keeffe had only been to two weddings in her life: her own and Barney’s. Ten people total. The minimum number you could have to attend two weddings.
This is the kind of story that makes biographers weep with gratitude. A gardener in horse manure. A judge who wanted to see the house. A bride, a groom, and the greatest woman painter in American history watching from across the room in her black dress, making sure the ceremony went exactly the way she wanted it to go.
The date was approximately 1977 to 1980. Barney could never remember exactly. It didn’t matter. What mattered was that it happened, that Georgia stood witness, and that Maggie Lopez went back to his garden afterward with a story that no one in Tierra Amarilla would ever believe.
The man who pointed Barney Ebsworth at American Modernism was named Charles Buckley, and he was the director of the St. Louis Art Museum. The conversation that changed everything took place in 1972, after Barney had visited Rotterdam and realized that he could never afford the great 17th-century Dutch paintings he loved.
“Charles, I really want to have a great collection,” Barney told him. “I want to have pictures that I really respect. I want the very, very best.”
Buckley asked: “What about School of Paris?”
Barney said he’d love to collect School of Paris but couldn’t afford it.
“What about American Impressionism?”
“What is it?” Barney asked. He genuinely didn’t know.
Buckley told him about Church, and Bierstadt, and the Hudson River School. Then he said: “Or American Modernism.” And then, having heard Barney say he wanted only A-plus, Charles Buckley offered the piece of advice that would echo across five decades and $323 million:
“Why don’t you do this? Why don’t you buy the 12 greatest American Modernist pictures you can buy? And when you find one better than your 12th, sell the 12th and buy that one, until you’re standing on Mount Olympus.”
— Charles Buckley, director of the St. Louis Art Museum, 1972
Barney’s response was immediate and characteristic:
“Charles, I think that’s a little bit like having 12 kids and saying you’re only going to have 12 kids, and your wife gets pregnant again, and you take little Charlie behind the barn and shoot him. I don’t think I’m going to be able to do that.”
So when he got to 12, he bought 13, 14, and 15 the same day. A Bierstadt, a Sheeler, and a Davis.
“I said, ‘I got to shoot three, Charlie.’ I said, ‘I’m not going to shoot any of them.’”
And just kept going.
Charles Buckley was later fired for buying a “fabulous Mondrian” for $225,000. The board thought it was too much. Barney was probably not yet powerful enough on the board to save him. Years later, Buckley’s advice — focus, quality, American Modernism — would produce a collection that sold for $323 million. The Mondrian that got Buckley fired was worth a fortune by then.
“I hope he has a smile today, wherever he is,” Barney told the Smithsonian, “thinking he’s been rated with the Louvre Museum as the” — and he trailed off into laughter, unable to finish the sentence, because rating Charles Buckley alongside the Louvre was both absurd and perfectly accurate.
Two mentors: the Louvre Museum and Charles Buckley. One taught him to see. The other told him what to look at. Between them, they made the Ebsworth Collection possible.
Barney Ebsworth never owned a cell phone. He had one for two weeks and got rid of it. On a golf course, a man asked, “How do I reach you?” Barney said, “You don’t.”
“I tried all my life to be a renaissance man,” he told the Smithsonian interviewer in 2017, “and I’m certainly not going to become a tech man now.”
He lived next door to Bill Gates. His house was worth $37.5 million. His art collection was worth $323 million. He had built travel companies and cruise lines and invested in Build-A-Bear Workshop. But he did not own a telephone that fit in his pocket.
He said he used smoke signals. Then he had to stop saying that, “because quite frankly, nobody knows what they mean anymore.”
There is a photograph of Barney and Bill Gates, side by side. Barney is leaning in, whispering something. The caption, written by his wife Rebecca, reads: “Happy birthday, Barney, and many more. The next big tech idea is smoke signals. Forget Windows. Think blankets.”
The man who owned Edward Hopper’s greatest painting and lived in a house designed by one of the world’s finest architects and had been to Paris every year for 62 consecutive years and had danced with a French girl at midnight and married another woman in Georgia O’Keeffe’s living room with a gardener standing in as best man — that man communicated with the world the same way his grandfather at Buckingham Palace had: by speaking to people, in person, with words.
No email. No text messages. No Instagram. No Twitter. No apps, no notifications, no blue light from a screen at 2:00 in the morning.
Just smoke signals.
And the paintings on the walls. And the lake outside the window. And the memory of a Louvre he had memorized, a Concorde he had chartered, a French girl he had danced with at midnight, and a collection that spoke louder than any phone ever could.
“If you had to choose between your experience and owning the pictures, which would you?” someone asked him.
“That’s easy. I’d take the experience every day. Because I can always go see the pictures.”
— Barney Ebsworth
He could always go see the pictures. But no one could take away the experience of having lived with them.
No phone required.
Of all the things Barney Ebsworth did with his money — the cruise lines, the Concordes, the paintings, the political donations, the home next door to Bill Gates — none reveals his character more completely than what he did with a 1,900-square-foot house in Kirkwood, Missouri.
He saved it. And then he gave it away.
The house at 120 North Ballas Road was designed by Frank Lloyd Wright in 1950 for Russell and Ruth Kraus. Russell was a mosaic and stained glass artist; Ruth was his wife and partner. Together they had commissioned from the greatest American architect a home that embodied Wright’s most democratic vision: beautiful architecture for middle-class Americans. Wright called these homes Usonian — a word he coined to describe a uniquely American architecture, modest in scale but radical in design, built from natural materials and designed to dissolve the boundary between indoor and outdoor living.
The Kraus house was Wright’s first building in the St. Louis area and is considered one of his most complex Usonian designs. The floor plan is built on Wright’s “unit system” — an equilateral parallelogram with intersecting parallelograms throughout, creating a geometry that feels both organic and precise, like a leaf or a crystal. The materials are brick, concrete, glass, and tidewater red cypress, used identically inside and out so that the house seems to grow from the landscape rather than sit upon it. A central hearth anchors the open living area — Wright believed the fireplace was the spiritual center of the home, the modern equivalent of the campfire around which families gathered since the beginning of human time. Concrete slab floors contain radiant heating, warming the house from below the way the earth warms a seed. Expansive glass doors open onto the surrounding woods, and when they are open, it is impossible to say where the house ends and the forest begins.
Russell Kraus himself created the stained glass designs for the main terrace doors — an artist’s collaboration with an architect, each man making the other’s work more beautiful. It is the kind of detail that Barney Ebsworth, who understood the difference between craft and art, would have appreciated deeply.
The Krauses lived in their Wright house from January 1956 until Ruth’s death in 1992. For thirty-six years, they inhabited a masterpiece. They cooked in Wright’s kitchen. They warmed themselves at Wright’s hearth. They watched the seasons change through Wright’s glass walls. They grew old in a house that was designed to make growing old beautiful.
After Ruth died, Russell — elderly, alone, and facing the question that confronts every owner of an irreplaceable building — needed a plan. What happens to a Frank Lloyd Wright house when the people who commissioned it are gone? The answer, too often in America, is demolition. Or neglect. Or a buyer who “updates” the kitchen and rips out the built-in furniture and paints over the cypress and calls it renovation. Wright houses have been lost this way. Dozens of them. The man who believed that architecture was the mother of all arts saw his buildings torn down, one by one, by a country that didn’t understand what it had.
Enter Barney Ebsworth.
In 2001, Barney donated $1 million to fund the purchase and preservation of the Kraus house. He established a nonprofit organization — The Frank Lloyd Wright House in Ebsworth Park — acquired the property, all 10.5 acres of wooded Missouri landscape, and transferred the entire thing to St. Louis County for permanent public use as a park and museum.
He didn’t buy it for himself. He didn’t add it to his collection. He didn’t hang a painting inside it and call it an Ebsworth gallery. He bought it for everyone. He bought it so that school groups could tour it, so that architecture students could study it, so that families from Kirkwood could walk through the woods on a Saturday afternoon and stumble upon one of the finest houses in America.
And then he funded the restoration. The brick was repaired. The tidewater red cypress was cleaned and treated. The original Wright-designed furniture — the built-in benches, the tables, the shelving that Wright considered inseparable from the architecture — was restored to its 1956 condition. The Kraus stained glass was preserved. The radiant-heated floors were brought back to working order. Every detail, every material, every sight line that Wright had intended was brought back to life with Barney Ebsworth’s money.
The park was named Ebsworth Park in honor of his parents, Alec W. and Bernice W. Ebsworth. Not Ebsworth Museum. Not the Ebsworth Institute for Architecture. A park. A public green space with a masterpiece at its center, free to visit, open to anyone who wanted to walk through the Missouri woods and see what Frank Lloyd Wright believed an American home could be.
Consider what this tells us about Barney. He collected the finest American paintings — Hopper, de Kooning, O’Keeffe, Pollock. He also preserved the finest American architecture — Wright, the most important architect America has ever produced. Hopper on the walls, Wright in the woods. Both expressions of the same unshakeable conviction: that American art is as great as any art produced anywhere in the world, and it deserves to be saved, restored, and shared.
But there is something more. The paintings were sold at Christie’s for $323 million. They went to private collectors and museums, dispersed across the world. The Wright house was given away — donated, permanently, to the public. The paintings enriched Barney’s estate. The house enriched everyone.
If you want to understand Barney Ebsworth, don’t start with Chop Suey. Start with Ebsworth Park. Start with a man who had the money to buy anything in the world and chose to buy a modest house and give it to his city. Start with a man who understood that Frank Lloyd Wright’s vision — beautiful architecture for the middle class — was worth saving precisely because it was designed for the kind of people who grow up on one and a half paychecks.
People like Barney.
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By the peak of his life, Barney Ebsworth did not live in one place. He lived in a constellation of properties that, taken together, describe the geography of American wealth and taste as precisely as his art collection described the arc of American painting. Each property served a purpose. Each reflected a different facet of the man. And each, in its way, was a work of art.
The crown jewel. 4053 Hunts Point Road, on the shores of Lake Washington. 9,400 square feet designed by Jim Olson of Olson Kundig, completed 2003–2004 at a cost of approximately $20 million. The lot: 3.27 acres with 300 feet of waterfront and a 2,200-square-foot dock that could accommodate boats and seaplanes. Every wall, every sight line, every window was designed around the art collection. Olson described it as “both about nature and about art, a backdrop for both.”
The neighbors told you everything you needed to know about the neighborhood: Bill Gates to one side, tech billionaires in every direction, the quiet waters of Lake Washington lapping at docks that cost more than most Americans’ houses. Hunts Point is one of the wealthiest zip codes in America — a tiny peninsula where the lawns are immaculate, the security is invisible, and the property taxes alone would make a normal person weep.
Barney was the outlier. In a neighborhood of tech fortunes made in stock options and IPOs, he had built his wealth the old-fashioned way: travel companies, cruise ships, and fifty years of buying paintings. He was the last of a certain kind of American rich — the kind that wears suits, collects art, and knows the difference between a Hopper and a hackwork.
After Barney’s death, the estate was listed for $45 million and sold in April 2019 for $37.5 million to Jeff Bezos. The house that Barney built to hold American masterpieces now belongs to the richest man in the world. Whether Bezos hung art on the Olson-designed walls is not known. One suspects Barney would have had opinions about whatever went up.
3020 La Pietra Circle #5, Honolulu, Hawaii. Held in the Barney A. Ebsworth Trust. Assessed at approximately $1.8 million — a modest figure by Ebsworth standards, which tells you this was not a showplace but a retreat.
La Pietra — Italian for “the stone” — is named for the historic estate nearby that once belonged to Walter F. Dillingham, Hawaii’s most powerful industrialist of the early twentieth century. The neighborhood, nestled between Diamond Head and the lush Manoa Valley, is one of the most exclusive residential enclaves in the Hawaiian Islands. It is old Honolulu money — the kind of quiet, established wealth that does not advertise itself with beachfront mansions but with addresses that only other wealthy people recognize.
A man who built cruise lines and sent ships across the Pacific would naturally have a foothold in Hawaii. The Pacific was Barney’s ocean — the Clipper ships had threaded through its islands, INTRAV had organized tours to its shores, Royal Cruise Line had sailed its waters. La Pietra Circle was Barney’s private port of call — the place where the man who made his fortune on travel could sit still for a moment and watch the Pacific do what the Pacific does: stretch to the horizon and promise that there is always something beautiful on the other side.
Ebsworth Park, 120 North Ballas Road. 10.5 acres. The Frank Lloyd Wright house. Not a home Barney lived in, but the home he saved — preserved with his $1 million donation in 2001, named for his parents Alec and Bernice, restored to its 1956 condition, and given to St. Louis County as a public park and museum. The only Ebsworth property that was never meant to be his. It was always meant to be yours.
3 Sumac Lane, Ladue, Missouri 63124. This was Barney’s home for decades — the house where the art collection lived before Hunts Point. Ladue is one of the most prestigious suburbs of St. Louis, a leafy enclave of old money and quiet streets. The Sumac Lane house was more than a home; it was the original gallery for the collection. The Hoppers, the de Koonings, the O’Keeffes all hung on its walls before Jim Olson designed a new house in Washington specifically to hold them. When the collection outgrew Sumac Lane, Barney moved to Seattle. The art demanded a bigger canvas. Before Ladue, there was the modest childhood home where Alec and Bernice raised Barney and Muriel on one and a half paychecks — the house where Barney played cricket in the backyard. The house he left when he went to Mizzou, and then to Wash U, and then to the Army, and then to France, and then to the rest of his extraordinary life.
He never went back to live there. But he went back to save a house — Wright’s house — and in doing so, he told St. Louis what St. Louis had given him: the conviction that beauty belongs to everyone, even the people who grow up on one and a half paychecks. Especially those people.
Four properties, four purposes:
After Barney died, the Hunts Point house went to Bezos for $37.5 million. The art went to Christie’s for $323 million. The Hawaii property remained in the trust. And Ebsworth Park remained exactly what Barney intended it to be: a Frank Lloyd Wright masterpiece in the Missouri woods, open to the public, free to visit, a permanent gift from a man who understood that the finest things in America should not be locked behind gates.
They should be in parks.
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The first time Barney Ebsworth went to an art museum, he didn’t go for the art. He went for a dead body.
His parents would say, “We’re going to the art museum.” And Barney — a boy who wanted to play baseball, not look at paintings — would say no. Every time. No. He wanted to play baseball. He did not want to go to the art museum.
Then his parents played their trump card.
“They said, ‘Well, you can see the 3,000-year-old mummy with the little brown toes showing.’”
The boy was caught between fascination and terror. He wanted to see the mummy. He also did not want to wake up at 3:00 in the morning and find the mummy chasing him. But curiosity won, as it always would with Barney, and he went to the St. Louis Art Museum for the first time.
Decades later, when he was one of the most important art collectors in America, sitting on the boards of the National Gallery and the Seattle Art Museum, Barney remembered the mummy. He started looking for mummies for museums. He called them “kid catchers” — objects that would bring children through the door the same way the 3,000-year-old mummy with the little brown toes had brought him.
“Because it did me,” he said simply.
The trajectory is almost too perfect: a boy lured into a museum by a mummy becomes a man who collects Hoppers. The child who wanted to play baseball ends up owning Chop Suey. The reluctant museum-goer becomes a museum trustee, then a museum benefactor, then the owner of a collection so important that its auction set thirteen records in a single night.
It all started with a mummy. A 3,000-year-old mummy with little brown toes showing.
Every great collector has an origin story. Some are born into it — raised among paintings, schooled in aesthetics, handed a trust fund and a subscription to Art Forum. Barney Ebsworth’s origin story is a dead Egyptian and a boy who didn’t want to go.
That’s America for you.
The moment that made the Ebsworth Collection possible happened not in a gallery or an auction house but in a private home in Rotterdam, in 1972. Barney was visiting Nico van der Vorm, the owner of Holland America Lines, whose uncle was the Boijmans of the Boijmans Museum. Van der Vorm’s home was filled with 17th-century Dutch masterworks — the Rembrandts, the Vermeers, the kind of paintings that Barney had loved since the Louvre.
Standing in that house, surrounded by greatness he could never afford, Barney had the revelation that changed everything.
He could not compete. Not in this arena. The Mellons, the Fricks, the Morgans — the robber barons and their heirs had been vacuuming up European masterworks for a century. The prices were already astronomical, and they would only go up. A millionaire from St. Louis who ran a travel company could no more buy a great Rembrandt than he could buy the moon.
He came home from Rotterdam and had the conversation with Charles Buckley that redirected his life. “Charles, I really want to have a great collection. I want the very, very best.” And Buckley, hearing the hunger in his friend’s voice, said the words that changed American art history: “What about American Modernism?”
By 1973, Barney was buying O’Keeffe. By 1974, Hopper. By 1975, he was building something that no one — not the Mellons, not the Fricks, not the billionaires who could outbid him on Picassos — could match. The greatest private collection of American Modernist art in the world.
Rotterdam showed him what he couldn’t do. Charles Buckley showed him what he could. The rest was quality, quality, quality.
Barney Ebsworth never negotiated the price of a painting. This was a point of pride — almost a badge of honor. If the price was fair and he wanted the object, he said “I’ll take it.” No haggling. No games. No back-and-forth. In a world of wealthy collectors who extracted every possible discount, Barney paid what was asked and moved on.
Except once. And it was an accident.
The painting was Chop Suey. The price was $200,000. And Barney, who had never negotiated in his life, told the dealer, Bill Zieler, that he “couldn’t really see paying $200,000 for the Hopper.”
He wasn’t negotiating. He was telling the truth. Two hundred thousand dollars was, in his gut, more than he felt comfortable paying. It was an honest statement of feeling, not a tactical maneuver.
But Zieler heard it as a negotiation. He called the owner. The price came down 10 percent. And Barney — who still needed to “get creative” to afford it even at the reduced price — bought the painting that would one day sell for $91,875,000.
“That is a great negotiation tactic,” Barney told the Smithsonian interviewer, laughing. “But I didn’t put it out for that.”
The accidental negotiation. The man who never haggled, haggled by accident on the most expensive painting he would ever own. And got ten percent off.
Years later, Barney found himself in front of the National Gallery’s board of trustees, standing beside Chop Suey during a Hopper exhibition. The curator, Frank Kelly, was giving the trustees a tour and spotted Barney. “Oh, there’s the owner there. Barney, you come up and talk about it.”
Barney told the story of buying the painting, and because the price had come down, he mentioned: “I’d never negotiated a piece of art.”
Standing in the middle of the trustees was Jeffrey Agnew of Agnew’s Gallery in London. Jeffrey Agnew was the one person on earth who knew this was a lie — because Barney had, in fact, negotiated with Agnew on a Zurbarán painting, getting the price down from $4 million and change to $4 million flat.
“What the hell are you doing in the trustees’ lecture?” Barney said to Agnew. “And you caught me in a bare-faced lie.”
Agnew replied: “Oh, thanks, Barney. You had to just start negotiating on me.”
One person in the world knew the truth. He lived 5,000 miles away. And he was standing right there.
This is the single funniest story Barney Ebsworth ever told, and he told it with the wide-eyed delight of a man who had waited decades to share it.
The setting: the opening night of the Dan Terra Museum of American art in Chicago. Dan Terra had been a significant collector — he’d been one of the under-bidders on Barney’s Joseph Stella painting — and a major Republican donor who had been appointed by Ronald Reagan as the Ambassador-at-Large for Art. The only one. First and last.
The evening began with a receiving line at the museum, where every guest stood in line for half an hour to be photographed with Dan and his wife. No one ever received a copy of the photographs. “There’s two possible answers,” Barney said. “One is, they didn’t have any film. Or the other is, nobody knew who was invited and they didn’t know who to send them to.”
Then the party moved to the Drake Hotel. Barney was seated with his dealer friends Stuart Feld and Warren Adelson. Three VIPs from Chicago gave speeches about what a great man Dan Terra was. Standard fare. Polite applause.
Then the lights dimmed. A 35- or 40-piece band struck up “I’m a Yankee Doodle Dandy.”
And Dan Terra tap-danced onto the stage dressed as Uncle Sam, singing at the top of his lungs.
Barney’s jaw dropped. He looked over at Stuart Feld, who was physically cringing. “What’s wrong, Stuart?” Barney asked. Feld said, “You wouldn’t do that at your opening night.”
Barney said: “If I could sing and dance, I certainly would.”
Terra, it turned out, had been a side man in Vaudeville as a young man. He had the training. He had the nerve. And he had a 40-piece band and a stage and an audience full of the American art establishment, and he went for it.
“That is one of the most memorable things I’ve ever seen in my life,” Barney told the Smithsonian. “And it still blows my mind just thinking about it.”
Earlier that evening, before the tap-dancing, Barney had been showing his wife Trish through the Terra collection. They stopped in front of an Arthur Dove pastel from 1919 called A Walk: Poplar — a painting Barney knew well, because he had wanted to buy it at the Edith Halpert auction in 1973.
While Barney was explaining the painting to Trish, he felt a tap on his shoulder. It was Dan Terra himself.
“Oh, I see you’re looking at that picture,” Terra said. “That’s by Arthur Dove, painted in 1919, called A Walk: Poplar.”
Barney replied: “Yes, and it was sold at 9:15 on March 14, 1973 in an Edith Halpert sale for $19,000.”
Terra stared at him. He looked down at the card Barney handed him. He looked back at Barney. He backed away slowly and said to no one in particular: “Who the hell was that?”
Everything Terra had told Barney was on the wall label. Everything Barney told Terra was from memory. Barney had been in the auction room when the painting sold. He knew the exact time, the exact date, the exact price. He knew it because he had wanted to buy it and hadn’t. He never forgot a painting he wanted and didn’t get.
In 1932, Georgia O’Keeffe had a nervous breakdown, and Barney Ebsworth believed it changed her art forever.
The breakdown was caused, in Barney’s analysis, by two things. The first was the Elizabeth Arden commission — O’Keeffe had accepted a job to paint a large flower painting for Arden’s new facility. Stieglitz, her husband and impresario, said absolutely not. It was commercial. Beneath her. He forbade it.
The second was Dorothy Norman. Stieglitz had taken up with the younger woman, and O’Keeffe knew it. Between the professional humiliation of having her commission vetoed and the personal devastation of her husband’s affair, she broke.
“She lost her ability to really do those lines that looked like they were going forever,” Barney told the Smithsonian. He believed O’Keeffe’s best work was done before the breakdown — 1930 and 1931 being her peak years. After 1932, the transcendent line that defined her greatest paintings — the quality that made Black, White, and Blue and Nature Forms, Gaspé feel like they extended into infinity — never fully returned.
“It was sort of like she needed to be under that psychic pressure,” Barney said. “And when she lost that, after the nervous breakdown — because nervous breakdowns do have good outcomes sometimes — you end up much better off, because you get off your own back and start relaxing more.”
The relaxation, paradoxically, cost her the edge. She was healthier. She was happier. She was no longer being crushed between a domineering husband and a commercial world that wanted her talent. But the paintings, in Barney’s expert opinion, were never again quite at the 1930 level.
He said this in front of O’Keeffe. He said it in front of Juan Hamilton. He said it to anyone who asked. And Georgia O’Keeffe, the woman who tolerated no fools, looked at the man who was telling the truth about her art and said: “Barney knows what he’s talking about.”
She knew. She had always known. The breakdown changed her. The art changed with her. And Barney, who had looked at more O’Keeffes than any living person — who could date them to the year from across a room — was simply the first person brave enough to say it out loud.
“I haven’t missed a year in Paris in 62 years,” Barney told the Smithsonian in April 2017.
Sixty-two years. From 1955, when he arrived as a soldier, to 2017, when he was an 82-year-old man sitting in a house worth $37.5 million, surrounded by paintings worth $323 million, telling a Smithsonian interviewer about his life. Sixty-two consecutive years of Paris.
He loved London. He loved New York. He called them his “big three.” Not for the food or the shopping or the nightlife, but because “they’re the three greatest museum cities.”
The man who never owned a cell phone, who communicated by smoke signal, who was “so un-tech that I’m certainly not going to become a tech man now” — that man crossed the Atlantic sixty-two times to stand in front of paintings. The Louvre. The National Gallery in London. The Met. The Frick. The Uffizi. Every year. Without fail. For more than six decades.
He first walked into the Louvre as a 21-year-old soldier who couldn’t type. He last walked in as an 82-year-old billionaire whose art collection would sell for $323 million seven months after he died. The museum hadn’t changed. Barney had. He had gone in a boy from one and a half paychecks and come out — sixty-two years later — as the man with the greatest eye in American art.
But the ritual was the same. Walk in. Look. Stand in front of greatness. Let your eyes be your mentors. Go home. Come back next year.
Sixty-two years.
Before there was an Ebsworth residence at 4053 Hunts Point Road, there was a McCaw residence. A beautiful 1918 Pacific Northwest mansion — three stories, great big wooden windows that you could push up with one hand, immaculate despite years of vacancy. It had belonged to Craig McCaw, the cellular telephone pioneer, and it was, by all accounts, a lovely home.
It could hold about two paintings.
“It was not a good picture house,” Barney said flatly.
So they tore it down. But first, Barney tried to give it away — he wanted someone to float it off the property, the way they used to move houses in the Pacific Northwest. That didn’t work. So he gave the house to Habitat for Humanity, who came in and salvaged whatever they could — fixtures, woodwork, hardware, anything reusable. Then the rest was demolished.
In its place, Jim Olson of Olson Kundig designed the house that would hold one of the greatest art collections in America. The inspiration came from the Louisiana Museum of Modern Art north of Copenhagen — a museum that Barney and a friend had visited, where the art and the landscape flow into each other through walls of glass.
“The soffits are Frank Lloyd Wright,” Barney explained. “The layout is Louisiana.” He wanted the house “semi-grand but not grand-grand.” Most of Jim Olson’s art houses featured two-story-high rooms. Barney insisted on room-sized rooms — intimate, human-scale, the kind of spaces where you could live with paintings rather than be dwarfed by them. The only two-story space was the entrance.
The house cost approximately $20 million to build. It had 9,400 square feet, 300 feet of Lake Washington waterfront, and a 2,200-square-foot dock. Every wall, every sight line, every window was designed around the art. Olson called it “both about nature and about art, a backdrop for both.”
Craig McCaw’s beautiful 1918 mansion was gone. In its place stood a 21st-century temple to American painting, designed by one of the world’s finest architects, inspired by a Danish museum, detailed with Wright’s soffits, and filled with Hoppers, de Koonings, O’Keeffes, and Pollocks.
After Barney died, Jeff Bezos bought it for $37.5 million. Habitat for Humanity got the old house. Bezos got the new one. And the paintings went to Christie’s.
Someone asked Barney the question that every great collector must eventually face:
“If you had to choose between your experience and owning the pictures, which would you?”
He didn’t hesitate.
“That’s easy. I’d take the experience every day. Because I can always go see the pictures. Owning the pictures and being able to see them when you want, including every day — that’s a wonderful benefit. But it’s nothing compared to — well, like what we’re being — like O’Keeffe. I mean, those are treasures. Those are treasures.”
Think about what he is saying. A man who owned $323 million worth of art — Hopper’s Chop Suey, de Kooning’s Woman as Landscape, O’Keeffe, Pollock, Johns, Warhol, forty-plus artists, hundreds of works — said he would give it all up rather than lose the experience of having collected it.
Not the objects. The experiences. The dance at midnight. The Louvre on weekends. Georgia O’Keeffe saying “Barney knows what he’s talking about.” Maggie Lopez standing in horse manure as best man. Dan Terra tap-dancing as Uncle Sam. Charles Buckley and “little Charlie behind the barn.” The moment in Rotterdam when he realized he could never afford the Dutch Masters. The moment at the Edith Halpert auction when he bought Black, White, and Blue for $47,000 and Lloyd Goodrich said, “Young man, in my opinion, you’ve bought Georgia O’Keeffe’s greatest picture.”
Those moments. Those people. Those stories. Worth more than ninety-one million dollars. Worth more than three hundred and twenty-three million. Worth more than the house that Bezos bought and the ships that sailed and the Concorde that broke the sound barrier.
The collection was magnificent. But the life that built it was the masterpiece.
“The emotional and the intellectual experience of collecting has been the most rewarding aspect of my life, other than of course family and close friends.”
— Barney Ebsworth
He could always go see the pictures. But nobody could take away the experience of having lived with them.
As published in The Seattle Times, St. Louis Post-Dispatch, and The New York Times, April 2018.
Funeral services held at St. Thomas Episcopal Church, Medina, WA, April 20, 2018.
Bernard (Barney) Alec Ebsworth
July 14, 1934 — April 9, 2018
Bernard (Barney) Alec Ebsworth of Hunts Point, Washington passed away on April 9, 2018 with his wife Rebecca and daughter Christiane by his side.
Barney was born in St. Louis, Missouri on July 14, 1934 alongside his twin sister, the late Muriel Louise Mueller, to Alec and Bernice Ebsworth. As a pioneering travel entrepreneur and renowned American art collector, Barney traveled the world living life to the fullest.
He met and married his first wife Martine Ebsworth (née de Visme) in Paris, with whom he had his daughter Christiane. He was married to his second wife, the late Patricia Ebsworth (née Kloepfer) with Georgia O’Keeffe as their witness at her Abiquiu home in New Mexico. After retiring from his career in the travel business, Barney moved with his wife Pamela Ebsworth (née Larimer) to Seattle, Washington and expanded his art collection.
Barney is survived by his wife Rebecca Ebsworth (née Layman), his daughter Christiane and son-in-law Mark Ladd of Chicago, his grandchildren Alexandra and Maximilian, as well as his numerous nieces and nephews.
A funeral service was held on Friday, April 20, 2018 at 2:00 PM at St. Thomas Episcopal Church in Medina, Washington.
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Funeral home: Flintoft’s Funeral Home & Crematory, Issaquah, WA
Find a Grave: Memorial #189080354
Note: The obituary text above is reconstructed from published sources across three major newspapers. For the complete original text as typeset, consult the St. Louis Post-Dispatch archives (April 2018) or contact Flintoft’s Funeral Home, Issaquah, WA.
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